Your motif
Every guest gets a motif stitched from their name. The same name always makes the same pattern. After the wedding, everyone's motifs become one sampler, with yours in it.
For the kitchen
Anything the kitchen should know for the wedding dinner on the 18th: allergies, dietary needs, access.
The kitchen has its list. If something changed, message Abdallah on WhatsApp.
After the wedding, your motif joins the keepsake, one sampler of every guest.